Can you believe it.
Some mother posted in chitchat describing her son's wedding dinner
and how angbaos was recorded.
And her suggestion that those not attending, can give a gift.
I was like in my heart....please lah, you are celebrating a union
of 2 people or using it as a excuse to make other people spend
money on you?
And frankly, most people gives lousy gifts. They recycle the gifts.
Like my friend's wedding....her cousin, rich one in fact, can you
imagine, ngeow until send her a metal apple, in a Tiffany box, but
its manufacture dunno where else? And call that a gift? They
attended the wedding dinner in full force and their excuse for the
free meals is that they gave a gift!
Good thing the patriach of that family was so embraressed, that he
secretly passed a obscene amount of money to the gal later on.
